My title is harsh right? That’s how I feel like when people start giving me labels and more so, looking at me like I am the girl that stands by the corner and sell her body for money. No offence.
I write on this blog for pleasure in which it gives no one any inclination to think they can identify and define me with what I write. So many times I have been tempted to stop this blog or stop writing erotica because of the emails and the comments I will get. It breeds a fear in my mind and it conjures the previous fears that happened and that I’ve overcome.
I write erotica not because I want to be taken advantage of, not because I want that kind of attention and not because it’s who I am. This -erotica- is a tiny fraction of who I am and therefore it doesn’t define me. It simply is something that I think everyone has but happens to be so good at keeping it in. I guess I am not that good at keeping in it then.
We have to know that being open about sexual desires isn’t something taboo anymore. I have read real life stories of erotic bloggers who got bullied and abused due to their writing (both men and women physically and mentally, sexually abused) and somehow I feel like I will be under that category at anytime. But a wise person will see the beauty and potency in expressing such desire.
People who write this subject know what they want and how they want it. That is a quality of full dominance over their life and therefore that could be a threat to the inferior minded.
I am young, probably the youngest erotic writer on this blog (idk) and I am aware that my writing is quite provocative but I do ask to be respected. I also thank the ones who complement my work and see far deeper than the words that my work shows.
Of course it’s erotic poems and stories but in all truth, it’s all in the element of love because I love love and I want to love. Besides, I have showed that I write more than just erotica.
I am not defending or causing fire where there isn’t any fire and I am not apologising for accepting, nurturing and expressing this talent and my passion.